Sometimes, you can't change the things going on in your life. All you can change is the way you choose to view these things (so cliche, I know).
For example, my best friend with the depression. Is there anything I can really do to change it (aside from being there for him and hoping for the best)? No, not really. This has weighed heavy on my heart for so damn long it feels that it feels like I have to bury my heart in the snow just to cool it off. What I have had to do is change my own life views to become a more positive influence. At least he's still here.
So, if you need to change your outlook on the situation, start inward. Remain calm and focus on the bright side. Everything has a bright side, regardless of whether or not you see it. Even if you are faced with a death, there are benefits to it. Maybe it was a grandmother who had been battling cancer. At least they're no longer in pain. If you ever need a bright side of a situation, please feel free to comment, message on Facebook, or send an email. I'm never too busy or "good" to have a good chat and try to help someone going through a hard time.
I love all of you and will write more tomorrow,
Alaska
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